Are You The Reason?

They say, “Never tolerate madness and violence from someone you love – Get out of it & move on.  No reason is strong enough to let someone do this to you”. The question you should then ask yourself, “Are you the reason behind this madness and violence. Did you provoke them enough that it lead to this?” If yes, take responsibility and give them their life back.

Setting a Limit

If you feel with all genuineness that you have tried to work on the relationship;

If you feel that despite all the communication, your words have been misinterpreted

If you feel you are tired reasoning, explaining, arguing, fighting, crying, and yet misunderstood

If you feel ignorance is not working either

If you feel being quiet is messing up things more

It is time you know that you have forgotten to live life

That you are giving something too much importance than it deserves

Perspective

There is nothing called as a negative event or a positive. There are only circumstances in life. 
Life is a journey - Smile as you travel through it.

Love?

Love is trust. Is it? No.

Love is faith. Is it? No.

Trust and faith in today’s world is broken with no second thought

Betrayal is a phase of all relationships. Some betray for another man or woman, some betray for parents, some for money, some for other selfish reasons.

Love is neither trust nor faith because love cannot be based on a foundation so fragile

Love is God.

God forgives. God is patient. God is tolerant.  

Only love begets love.

How Independent

Sip a coffee alone in a café

Buy yourself a pop corn and watch a hilarious movie alone in a multiplex

Visit a planetarium alone and forget for a moment you are on Earth

Get wet in the rains all by yourself

Take out one day to see your city all by yourself with a new perspective

Go out in the city, take your camera and click whatever you feel like

Sow a flower seed in the pot and water it everyday

Simple things they are, aren’t they?

Do all of this by yourself and you will know that you are not just an independent person, who is capable of making him happy, but also a human who can give life to someone all by himself

Karma! Really ?

There is nothing called as karma

‘As we sow, so shall we reap’ is only a philosophy for self-discipline

Fear of punishment by some eternal force, should not be the reason behind being good to people

Goodness stems from the heart & not from fear

You can never ‘Make’ people happy because ‘Making’ is taking an effort

People are happy only when they learn that you are happy with them

It all starts when you 'Expect'

When there is a gap between what you expect from people and what you get from them, unhappiness creeps in.

The gap widens when expectations turn into demands and demands are never fulfilled in a relationship.

You are then left with just two options: 1) Continue expecting from them with a hope that someday your want and desire will be fulfilled 2) Look for happiness within yourself than in them, because when you expect from yourself, you are far more assured and confident to fulfill them.